Jtate,
Why did you include the red eagle clutches? I didn't bother with them in my truck and I am running a turbocharger with tall gears. IMO, you only need to start considering upgraded clutch packs after you exceed 300 Hp or more and even then I have my doubts its really needed.
What you have to remember about the E4OD is that it is C6 at its core, and C6s are legendary for taking insane amounts of horsepower in stock form with stock clutch packs. The slipping problems with E4ODs usually comes from the valve body calibration from factory that doesn't leave enough safety margin for higher load conditions. The E4OD was designed with electronic precision to shift smooth. The C6 was designed to shift crisp for durability, but both use essentially the same clutches and hard parts.
The only real weak clutch pack I feel you might want to upgrade in the E4OD is the overdrive clutch pack, and you can get the backing plate and friction from a ford dealer or aftermarket source. That upgrades it from a 2 friction to a 3 friction, although I've seen some put a 4 clutch pack in there. As it is, the 3-4 shift can sometimes be harsh in my truck at light throttle .
Its also possible to get an upgraded direct drum that allows you to run 5 friction elements instead of the 4 friction that most medium E4ODs came with (this is for the 2-3 shift). Usually you have to find those second hand but again, I didn't seem to need it with my turbo 6.9
F5 front pump can be picked up off Ebay for under $100 (got mine for $70 + shipping). Depending on what upgrade/ shift kit you get, it will include most of the valves for the pump anyway.
3 clutch billet TC is optional unless you want to turbocharge the engine and even then, you can get them for under $400 these days.
You can get the 6 pinion steel forward planetary gears for $60 last I checked, and the 4 pinion overdrive steel set with imput shaft is around $100. Don't bother with reverse because you will never wear those out especially with 4.10 gears. Again, the C6 was all aluminum carrier 3 pinion gears AFAIK, so the steel gears are an overkill for a N/A diesel application.