Until the oil passages all get full of oil and you have good stable oil pressure you have metal on metal in all the crank, main, & rod bearings. During normal operation high pressure oil actually forms a cushioning layer between the bearings and rotating parts to where they don't actully even touch each other. If you don't wait until the pressure is up before you start to rev it, you are putting all the stress of revving it on the bearings while the parts are still metal on metal - before that cushion of high-pressure oil is there to keep them from actually touching.
i agree with most of that but there should be a residual oil left in the bearings to hold up for a short time till they get fresh oil from the pump. if you actaully get it to touch metal to metal it would be over real quick with even just a couple of shavings taken off.
i have also been told beside the bearings its real ******* the cylinder walls because they are reletivly dry during start up.
he need to do some trouble shooting running on a few cylinders is also putting all the stress of spinning the motor on only a couple of connecting rods, not good. its his truch though......