She shifts just as firm as usually, after the shift kit and the larger line pressure modulator valve she's not your typical slushbox no more, and I haven't noticed any difference in the way she shifts before and after the howling started.
Yes I do have a manual switch for the TCC, but I use it pretty much the same way the PCM does - only in 3rd and 4th gear, and before I lock it I actually let off the throttle a bit so it's easier on the clutches. Really I only have it so I can keep the converter locked at off throttle situations and have engine braking. The converter unlocks automatically when I touch the brake pedal, and I keep it unlocked in 1st and 2nd gear, also if I'm to downshift from OD into 3rd I'll unlock the converter then downshift then lock it again, which is exactly what the PCM does.
But I can't be running around at 45 mph with the converter unlocked all the time, as it will slips like 500 rpms when under load so I can only imagine how good the ATF would heat up if I were do drive like that for miles and miles. No idea on what the converter actually is tho, other than it's bright red, its front looks beefier than factory converters I've seen, and it has no drain plug in it...