1356 is 31 spline, NV4500HD is 29 spline. The bolt pattern and centering step are the same dimensions though.
The dodge 4x4 mainshaft doesn't stick out far enough to effectively engage a ford transfercase. I buy a new 2wd NV4500HD mainshaft and have Kieth at Dutchmans cut it down to the correct length, respline it to 31 spline and heat treat it.
You can also spend about $600 for a hoky setup from advance adapters that comes with a spacer ring and a spud shaft.