I don't need to lighten up in my opinion, but none the less I agree whole heartedly with what you are saying. If I saw a continued stream of bad products etc. then I would think twice as well. And as you said, not being able to make contact would be bad. Apextrans is dealing with that issue and I would not be comfortable in that situation.
Having ran several businesses for many years, I fully believe the business adage that a happy customer tells one person, while a dissatisfied customer (even if they, they customer were the cause of the dissatisfaction) will tell 20. The ratio holds about true. I have seen 4 issues with Ken on this and all other boards I frequent total. I have seen in the last month no less than 8 people that are very satisfied with what they have received. I believe Apextrans was even happy with performance and such, but as you stated, service is paramount here and is possibly lacking. I have read many posts from Apex and if in the end, he is unsatisfied with the total package, I would take his trials/tribulations pretty seriously but I just feel that taking one persons word, especially someone who contracted a job then backed out financially, as irresponsible. I have been in this situation, I have done machine work for years, I have had customers drop of parts, never seen or heard from them for years, then come back and want their finished product. That type of customer is not needed by anyone in business and I would venture to place 90% of the blame on the truck owner. He could have told Ken he would be down to get the truck on Monday, and not showed up until Friday, or he could have told Ken don't worry about the hood, I'll take care of it or better yet, as far as we know, maybe the hood was installed but the exaggeration made for a better tale.
The law of averages so far has shown me two things - 1. Ken makes a quality product that does enhance performance and seems responsible in supporting it. 2. Ken's business sucks at communication and he maybe needs to hire someone to help with that, but then again, if it is a sideline, I wouldn't expect him to be there 24/7.
Apextrans, I hope it all works out for you and to your satisfaction.