I just got my relays in this afternoon and sourced all the other parts - including automotive wire - earlier in the week. I need to look at the diagram and get some more under-hood time to get more comfortable with it. 20 degrees and blowing hard doesn't give much motivation. If I have it correct in my mind...
#30 - contact hot side goes to the fuse box and through to the battery
#86 - coil side to ground
#85 - coil side to tie into driver factory wires which continue to dimmer switch
#87 - contact load side to new driver side wires, and
#87A - contact load side to new passenger side wires.
With this in mind, I would be using all 5 of the wires/terminals from the relays, and would be using both the 87 and 87A posts, correct? I'm just not clear as to whether or not I only use #87 for the new wires and splice/solder for either side or use 87 for one and 87A for the other. Because they are internally connected, I hope the latter, but when I tested for continuity earlier, it only 'passed' when leads were connected to 87A/30 and not when 87/30 were connected. I'm thinking that was because there was no power going to the relay.