The LMC product I'm ordering is just the harness and you need two relays to complete it.
ETA: The more I look at the wiring, the less inclined I am to buy the harness and just get the relays and fuse holder for this. I have plenty of wire and connectors. My questions now are:
can I use #12AWG wire to cut and splice to the relays,
can I use 30/40amp AGT relays instead of 20amp relays, and
is a 20amp fuse sufficient for protection using the above materials with stock headlight bulbs?
Well, maybe LMC is carrying something different now, but what they had when I was ordering included relays with connectors to match, one female headlight socket and two male ones, all wired up more or less plug and play. You had to supply power from somewhere. And there's no fuses. Hmm, OK, I looked in the catalog, and no, they're carrying the same POS they were carrying. And what's most annoying about it is that it doesn't use standard Bosch-layout relays like everything else. They are practically falling out of trees, if you need a replacement. They're in almost everyone's cars, so you can get them out of any junker or anyone's parts box.
I have a 10A fuse for each of my highs and lows so a 20A fuse should cover both sides. But I like having separate fuses, because if need be you can run on your brights if they have their own fuse. Not something I'd like to do on the road, but it would be OK offroad.
#12AWG is overkill, so yes, you can use it. And you can use 30/40 amp relays if you want, but 20 amp relays are plenty. you can get
far better headlight connectors at the local parts store than what came in my LMC kit if there's anything wrong with either of yours. Whatever you do, use standard Bosch-layout relays, whether you use sockets or not. #1 reason not to use the LMC kit, even if you're not using the connectors. Two relays, some insulated female spade crimps, some butt crimps (I prefer solder but anyway), one ring crimp to the starter relay hot side for power, some wire, some fuse holders with fuses and a stripper/crimper is the
total list of stuff you need to pull of this job if your headlight connectors are good. You can pull it off cheaper with circuit protection.