Here's what I would do. Take all the turbo tubes off (do not unbolt the turbo) just the tubes/intake hat that blow pressure into the intake manifold. Clean all the oil off them, and the inside of the compressor side of the turbo. Then remove the CDR from the valve cover. Install a 1" push in fitting with a hose attached. Run the hose down under the truck. Now you have a RDT, road draft tube.
Now take some shop towels,and a screw driver and clean up the valley pan. Under the IP, intake manifold.
Drive the truck like this for a month or so, see if it still leaks.
I suspect you have oil coming thru the CDR, into the turbo, then being pushed down out of the intake hat, onto the valley pan? Prolly have a fuel leak, also. So the oil is mixing with the fuel, and draining down the valley pan drain, down the back of the block and onto the ground.
As for oil being pushed out of the exhaust. Do not worry, yet. It's common for condensation to get into the exhaust. Then when you fire the engine, it blows out black soot/water. This might be what your experiancing.