NO! STOP!
Ok geez... calm down Mel. Honestly, it's the internet. This is all imaginary....
OK, well I'm so tired of posting about this topic, and to see people sending folks off to other boards to get an answer is just, well... irritating.
Clearly I need to produce a full scale educational video on how to troubleshoot this system. It is so well designed, and easy to understand, really ANYONE should be able to figure out what the problem is.
http://www.oilburners.net/forums/showthread.php?27237-how-to-test-if-glow-plug-relay-is-working
http://www.oilburners.net/forums/showthread.php?27135-GP-s-or-Controller
What it really boils down to is this... The controller operates the contactor (also, called the solenoid or inappropriately, the "relay") Both can be bad, or if either one is bad, you've still got the same problem.
The CONTROLLER is in charge of how long the contactor is closed. It compares the volage going into the contactor (right from the battery) to the voltage leaving the contactor at the far end of the Z strip (which is a very low impedance resistor). If the difference is minimal, then the controller assumes the glow plugs are hot, and it opens the contactor, with periodic "checks" to monitor their temperature. On a cold engine, the voltage will be about half what the battery is. When it sees a 6 volt difference, it watches the glow plugs heat up, which causes that voltage to climb. When it gets to about 1 volt, it opens the contactor. If ANY glow plugs, wires, or connections are bad, the voltage will rise too quickly, and the system will fail to glow the plugs long enough to get them hot.
The CONTACTOR is nothing more than an on/off switch that provides battery power, streight to the glow plugs through the Z strip. If, when it closes, there is a high resistance connection due to contact pitting, internal resistance, or mechanical presure issues, then the controller will be misled into thinking the glow plugs are hot, and the contactor will open and click rapidly.
You can TEST the contactor very easily as I pointed out in the link. You can check the glow plugs easily with a test light. You can bypass the contactor just by shorting the two heavy lugs together with a metal object such as a screw driver to see if your truck will start on what few glow plugs you may have working.