I don't know if diesel necessarily wears it out, but the seals in it might not be 100% compatible with diesel. I was looking into availability of a high volume mechanical lift pump, and a lot of places that off high volume mechanical lift pumps couldn't guarantee their pumps were diesel fuel compatible. I then asked for the material specs of the pump's components and got a lot of silence and "that's proprietary".
I talked to a delphi rep about it as well, just to see if the diaphragm in a diesel pump was the same material used in a gas model, and he told me he kicked it up to engineering, and that's as far as it went. If it's all nitrile, it's 100% fine as gasoline and diesel are both compatible with it. But I couldn't even get them to give me that kind of confirmation.
I also wondered if the gelling/waxing aspect of diesel is what makes them skittish about it.........