I am turning the nut clock wise, or towards the drivers side when standing in front of and facing the nose of the truck. That should be correct for loosening a left handed nut.
Yes that's the correct direction...
One thing you've mentioned ...hitting the wrench with a hammer while friend holds the pulley tool. This in all likelyhood will not work.
In order for IMPACT to work in this situation that PULLEY tool must rest on something solid like frame etc where the force transmitted through hitting wrench with hammer is not absorbed by your buddies hands etc.
The Lisle impact tool works great if you have the AIR and a kick ass AIR hammer to work it.
If all else fails, measure out the pulley bolts. get a 1/4" thick bar bolt it to two bolts and have it long enough to reach frame and then use hammer method.
It cannot be that hard to get off something's amiss in all this, I've done several of these and not had this level of issue.
What are you using for HEAT? A nice oxy/acet torch would be best IMHO.
Good luck