Don't want 4.10 as even with a ZF that would put me around the same crazy highway RPM it's turning now. I've had 4.10:1 in one truck before, it was a 302 with a ZF5 and it definitely needed 4.10:1 to do any work especially with the cam it needed to make any power with such small displacement. That engine was always screaming, don't want to do that again for something I drive every day and use for occasional long distance on the highway.
My 460 truck has 3.55:1, ZF5, and 35" tires and I find it perfect for my needs. Never a lack of torque or pulling power, low range works great for moving trailers around tight spaces, gets rolling with a load just fine in granny without dragging the clutch,and can cruise happily at 70 MPH at 2000 RPM with a 5000 lbs load in 5th on level or slight grades. I want the IDI to do the same thing and essentially be the same truck but an IDI instead of a 460... and hopefully at a lower cost per mile. Right now the IDI is getting slightly better MPG (460 gets 12.5 unloaded and 10-10.5 towing 5000 lbs, IDI about 1-2 MPG better so far) but with diesel costing slightly more than 93 octane my cost per mile is the same. A few more MPG with a ZF5 should start saving money and with 57 gallons of fuel vs 38 give me a much greater range.