When I cracked the injectors I didn't notice much change, is it pretty obvious when an injector is bad and you crack it open?
That is commonly suggested. However, I have tried this personally looking for which injectors are bad or good. I've never had this technique help me chase down a bad injector, and I've had my share over the years. Recently had a stuck injector on my F250. Very similar symptoms to what you are having. But, several things can give these symptoms. Biggest clue for me was the fuel leak at the return cap, very hot injection line and injector, and the injector itself was not at torque spec anymore (ate the cooper washer completely). Pulled the injection line off and saw soot at the top of the injector. Fired up the truck with the line off and compression was coming out of the top of the injector. Cap was melted.
Heath
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EYlC61MfYUY
Here is a video of me diagnosing, this shows the gradualness. I noticed it's after longer periods of idling and long periods at a constant throttle(I.e. I go to work 13 miles highway one way and when I come to a stop it starts again). You can hear everything I hear, I used HD video as well. You hear a slight huff sound about 30-40sec in and then gradual into the sound I am used to hearing.
I have to drive it, no work no money. If it fails I can use a work truck but until then boss won't budge on me using one. With that being said the idle has become extremely rough. No longer smooth but lots of vibration through the cab. I felt the lines but nothing searing hot. Gentlemen I know said to check the washer holding the injector to the block as it may be bad or not torqued enough and is causing a huge loss in compression.

An easy way to test this idea is spray some soapy water on the injector at the head. If ANY bubbles show up you have a bad copper gasket or a bad seat under the gasket. Might try tightening the loose injector if you find one also. You still have not told us what and where you got the injectors. I'm knid of wondering why you have not commented on this yet???
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