If the sillyscum doesn't work, then welding won't work with a heavy fitting and a thin pan, but you can get weld up fittings from Summit or Jeggs and braze them on and they will seal up perfectly. Brazing will allow you to join dissimilar metals and metals of dissimilar thickness without a problem. that's not a body panel, if you tried to zap that on with an arc, or mig it would have a bunch of tiny pinholes.... and oil leaking all over... back to square one
youd need some real thin flux covered brazing rod and work it just hot enough to get things moving or you'll warp the crap out of the valley pan
Now, the next question, why are you blowing so much oil out, have you checked to see if you have excess blowby?
You might want to consider running a couple of treatments of Auto Rx and see if you can clean up your rings and lower your crankcase pressure some.
youd need some real thin flux covered brazing rod and work it just hot enough to get things moving or you'll warp the crap out of the valley pan
Now, the next question, why are you blowing so much oil out, have you checked to see if you have excess blowby?
You might want to consider running a couple of treatments of Auto Rx and see if you can clean up your rings and lower your crankcase pressure some.