also when you drive the truck for a while and you go to open the fuel tank cap there is pressure. is that a sign of an air leak?
You have the wrong fuel cap. Your tank is pulling a vaccum, thats not helping your issue. Been there done that, I just busted out the spring and valve in the center of my cap so I dont have to worry about it happening again. Next time it wont start try unscrewing your fuel cap to release the vaccum.
I will try to find you a wiring diagram for the glows and lift pump. I am betting your Injectors are weak enough that you arent atomizing fuel good enough to start w/o glows.
You need to check and see if you are getting power to the glows, its a 12v system. Might be time to change the glows if they were coming on while running, that will fry them quick, BUT before you put new ones in you need to make sure your wiring is straightened out.
The LP has key on power, it shouldnt be connected to the glows in any way UNLESS someone tried to wire it to "prime" itself while the glows were on for easier starting. That is a common mod for 6.5er's but I doubt a Gov mechanic would do it.