Go down to NAPA, buy an Irwin chain style strap wrench, and a 1 7/8" combination wrench. They will **** you on both of them. The strap wrench goes on the pully. The chain on my strap wrench was almost too short. I have to use the short leg on a 5/32" allen wrench to go through the holes in the last link in order to make it work, but it does work and works well. I did the same thing you did with the rental tools, and it didn't round the nut on mine very badly. The 1/7/8" wrench grabbed it just fine.
Had I listened to who ever it was on here who told me to get these two tools first, I would have saved myself a serious headache, some busted knuckles, and some $$ and gone somewhere other than NAPA, but since mine is also my DD, and I had to have the wifes car back before she left for work at 1:00, I just went to NAPA and spent the money.