Imho, I think you need to consider the amount of time and money you are going to spend on an older diesel and truck chassis.
(Just so ya know my entry into the diesel world started in 1988 on a old '84 6.9. My experience 25+yrs, ran mining Light vehicle shop w over 135 vehicles, myself and two other guys. Ford, Cummins, Chevy, HD Cummins, Caterpillar, Komatsu, Hitachi...."one" of my military mos' was 88m, truck operator) anyway,
So clutch and components,complete brakes, intercooler & components, turbo, studs, injectors, fuel pump upgrade. You have h2o possibility but 20psi? Possible exhaust brake.
$$$ even if you do all the work. Down time. Still have a truck that really isn't setup to do it although many Experienced have and do.
The new ones. Plush and nice. Emissions crap has killed them, powerwise, economy and reliability.
Get a '99-'03 sd7.3.
The e99 I bought in 2000 sold me when stock, it pulled an old 4dr 53 chevy that motherinlaw Loaded full of canned food and filled the bed with more, years worth. Anyway going over the Rockies from Grand Junction to Denver on I-70, probably toughest test in the U.S.
It had to work on a few passes but could maintain about 69 if I stayed in the power band. Going down was just a matter of running a little slower at 55 a tapping the brakes a few times.
For what your going to spend, you can find a stock 7.3 that can do that job.
Sorry so long winded. I've done a lot to my e99 (won't bore you anymore unless you ask).
It will run up I-70, Eisenhower Tunnel, Loveland Pass, with truck at 8700, old '73 cabover loaded, trailer with 3 motorcycles loaded with gear and firewood putting me easily at your weight, 90+ until max rpms if I want and just hit 1200* after several miles. Pulls at 75 all day long, 85*; up ANY pass engine might get to 210*, tranny maybe 185*, pyro 850* and gets about 12.9mpg doing it.