Hey man, I see you're kinda-sorta local - try scavenging the tachometer and associated wiring from a junkyard truck, Parts Galore has some of the best U-Pull-It facilities, and as of 2-3 weeks ago the one on 8 Mile and Hoover had two 6.9 diesel trucks - one even had the IP still in there, but don't count on that cause we took it already

In any case, $1 gets you through the door, another $1 gets you a wheel-barrow, you bring your own tools, and you're all set for scavenging parts.
As far as backpressure - unlike a gasoline engine, in a diesel like yours you don't want any of that, therefore the 4" upgrade will be nice. One thing to keep in mind tho, the real bottleneck of these exhaust systems is the Y-merge where the two 2" downpipes go into the single 2.5" mid-pipe, if you could get rid of that and make the dowpipes merge straight into the big 4" pipe that would be sweet!