everything sounds normal to me.if it's not,i share the same issues you have lol.
if she's under 240,all systems go.i was having some issues myself,turns out my oil temps were the cause for quick spikes and higher than desired coolant temps(quick 230+ spikes on hills.even upwards of 240 when max gross on hills) when oil temps hit 260+ F the heat transfers to your coolant quick on the hills.an aux oil cooler cured that,but with a proper 50/50 mix anything from 192-215 coolant temps running down the road is all good.anything lower than your t-stat wouldn't be working.diesels like to run warm,not cool.
the cooling fan can't help the engine run any lower than the t-stat,nor would you want it to try,as it would simply be a waste of fuel.
iv got e-fans and don't have them spin,not even on low until 220/225ish.