Just to be clear, I take it that these posts are Father (kodiak98400) and Son (dlundberg1990) talking about the same truck.
White smoke on a cold start usually indicates late timing or air intrusion, possibly plugged return line to tank, that is if the glow plug system is working properly ( GPC cycle of 12 to 15 seconds @30*F to 40*F) and a ON/OFF relay cycling up to 2 minutes.
You say the timing was set at 9.5 BTDC then changed to 8 BTDC, was that timing set with a hot engine?
From what you say, jumping the GP relay, did you go directly from battery to the relay terminal with the ZigZag strip and have good connections? If not do it that way, the relay contact may be burnt or corroded so that there isn't enough current passing to really heat (get HOT) the GP's. Voltage and current are two different things.
Edit: On your video it appears that the battery voltage is low, the instruments dim quite a bit. , although it seems to be cranking fast enough.