awesome! so your narrowed it right down nicely.so you pretty much know you have a faulty wire between the tach sensor and the ecm.now to find it lmao.
might be just easier to run new lines as far as you can.the first guess though would be right there up on the engine due to vibrating over the years.
she's going right into N on you,but the key is the tach signal dropping out at the same time.so now you know where the issue is and great process of elimination narrowing it down to the wiring.
oh yeah,you'd have a whole different problem if the ecm wasn't getting power.focus on feeding the ecm a clean tach signal and your got 'er.
got someone to wach the tach while you jiggle the tach sensor wires around? might just get lucky and find it right at idle and splice in a fresh wire and done.