First off welcome to the forum. Now about your gutless engine not being able to pull a lite load. Seems to be an issue with worn out injecters and an injection pump. Clearly any fuel parts with 180,000 miles on them are long past useable. Now a new set of Bb injecters and pump are what you need plus... Get it timed to 9.5 degrees fefore top dead center by the pulse method of timing. Whatever you do make sure the person that removes the pump from the engine does not remove the pump still connected to the gear and cover. No matter what you may have read on utube. Thats not the way to do the job. There is no way to truely see the gear timing marks when it goes back togehter. We have helped countless members fix this and its not an easy fix either so please talk before you do anything. Now about the 20 lbs of boost. Anything over 13 or 14 is wasted because the air going intthe engine is now well over 300 degrees. The turbo heats up the air as it compresses itplus the turbo is way out of its map at 20 lbs. An intercooler will help but its best to modify the turbo to make cool boost up there. If you feel your getting better hp running waste oil its probably because the injection pump is well worn out. The increased viscosity of the waste oil and diesel makes the pump put out more fuel. As these pumps wear out the clearances increase. Then they can't push the fuel to the injecters. Its really simple science working here. I can pull heavy at 16,000 lbs combined gross and still do it fast without issues.