You should beable to get Rotella in Ontario if you can't find that you can always go with Petrocan Duron 15w-40 its what I'am running I like it. I was using Delo 400 15w-40 but I switched to the Duron. I buy it in 5 gallon pails as 1 pail does almost 2 oil changes.
As for oil filters I use nothing but Wix but that is my choice same with fuel filters I get mine through the local Autosense dealer.
I have been using Diesel Power + fuel additive it makes my old IDI run like a scalded cat. I tried Stanadyne (Freds Hair tonic) personally didn't see much improvement.
You sure you want to pull a 50' car trailer with a P/U you maybe should have bought a 5 ton truck instead. With my old truck grossing 15,000lbs carrying a load on the deck she slow as a snail even 4 cylinder econoboxes pass me on the mildest hills. I join the 140,000lb gross trucks climbing the hills when fully loaded
These IDI trucks are not big power by any means they are really slow compared to the new trucks. With the price of diesel now a medium duty truck would prolly get better mpg over the IDI pulling that kind of weight. What is the price of fuel in Ontario out here in B.C. its up to a loonie a litre which is a real
Anyhow good luck with the truck your biggest hope is the SCAs have been kept up so you don't end up as a Cavitation victim. Most IDIs in this area die around 300,000kms from cavitation or they are just plain worn out. A rebuilt IDI is around 6000 dollars CND.
Myself I'am considering going back to a 460 gas if the price of diesel gets any higher. If the price of reg gas was up to a loonie a litre then it would make me feel better :Sly