With a few exceptions, syn is 75W and dino is 80 or 85W... because the syn has better cold flow. If you don't have a LSD, best not to buy an oil with the LSD friction modifier (FM) in it. Many of them are organic in nature and don't stand up to heat well. High heat causes them to oxidize and it brings the oil down with it. Some syno oils have good enough friction characteristics that they don't need any FM.
Best to base oil viscosity choices on how you use the truck. If you tow hard and alot, your diff oil will get very hot and you should use a 75W140 syn or an 85W140 dino. If you don't tow often, that 140 grade oil can cut into fuel economy (because the oil never gets hot and it stays thick and causes drag). I have a diff oil temp gauge on my truck now, as well as a Mag-Hytec cover, which helps it run cool. I on run a 90 grade oil (LE-607 from Lubrication engineers... no longer made but I have a large supply).
Because you live in Michigan, and it gets cold there I would point you to a 75W90 syn or a 75W140 if you tow alot. I'm not a big syn oil guy when it comes to engines but with gear oil, it makes a difference. Brand... not so important (to me... I'm not a one brand guy).