Sounds about right. I've had mine for years and still ticking. I like the filter, I saw cap in there and cleaned it up before it got worse. Never would have known with stock fuel system...
I also ceramic coated all of my exhaust and turbo housing from Manis to downpipe, so my under hood temperatures are greatly reduced. Of the three idis I've been around mine was the coolest, before the coating it was hot as hell. My point is that electronics don't love heat or moisture, I'm wondering if some of the failures aren't from either heat up in the engine bay, moisture down on the rails, pumping oils or fighting sludges, etc. Warm and dry is fine but before the coating she was a fire breather... snow would melt, steam would rise off the hood. Last time it snowed and I drove with it on the hood it didnt even drip. Plus the turbo spools better! Just my theories, could be complete crap but I doubt they see the same heat on a ****** unit as an average idi.
If you are paranoid it will fail then why not just plumb it so you can undo a couple hoses, keep a mechanical pump as a spare, and make it stupid easy to swap back. Mech pumps are pretty cheap. Two bolts and two clamps could be all you need.
On the topic of fuel run away - can our fuel solenoids ever fail open? I'm sure it is rare to say the least, I've never heard of any Case that wasn't someone playing with the internals on their ip.
If you plan on pumping anything not diesel you will want the mech pump. Carriers do not like oils. Some have run light loads through, but I have to wonder if that isn't part of the failures too. At least preheat the oil fuels to flow easier...