Put a toggle switch in the dash, run 12v to it from either fuse panel or battery. Other wire to fss. Now its more like a tractor. BUT easier to steal. Really you just need a pair of pliers to take one...
I would suggest you also add two more buttons, these will give you full control of your truck: pushbutton for starter, and pushbutton for glowplugs. The pushbutton starter will keep you from snapping the crappy actuator in the steering column. I prefer to be in control of my glowplugs - manual truck with manual everything else - why not? I can run Bosch plugs manually and not burn them out whereas your pretty much stuck with Beru on the controller. Radio is switched off of constant 12v too so i can listen to it without keys.
Its really weird that it kept melting wires. On the passenger fender is a big gray connector with 8 or so wires. The red wire with green stripe is key-on power for all that. Its common for this to be corroded, dirty, melted, broken, etc. If its shorting out there the wires would melt before the connector. I dont recall if you said it was right off the IP or further back...
Bad connections including internal wire damage can cause arcing which gets hot, smoking, etc. While you are replacing wire you could get a diode, and do the high-idle switch modification too.