Some of your guys answers aren't all that helpful, lol.
It's like asking, how do I win? Well.... you just don't lose.
I think changing the oil every 3000 miles helps alot. Sending in oil samples to blackstone every third or fourth change too, will keep you up to date about what's going on in your engine in terms of wear and any problems that may be cropping up so you can fix them before they become major problems.
For the fuel system, I would recommend running diesel kleen every tank, that'll keep the injection pump from prematurely wearing out from the new crappy diesel fuels.
Repair all leaks in the fuel system as soon as you discover them. Keep air out of the injection pump and keep you from having to run your starter long to prime the fuel system.
Keep the glow plugs operational and the engine will start up every time no problem. If you don't have the 7.3L glow plug system, get it. Or just switch to manual control.
That's all I can think of for now...