On a tow package, there should be a Blue and a Orange or Red wires wrapped up in the harness at the rear and in the harness by the firewall. The Blue is the 12 VDC brake power, the Red or Orange is the trailer battery 12 VDC charge wire. Normally you have to get a TEE pigtail connector for the Brake/Turn signal lights (Green for right, Yellow for Left could be Vise Versa) and a Brown wire for the trailer running lights. A white wire from the 7-pin has to be hooked to the frame for a ground.
I have no idea why there is two 4 pin connectors at the rear.
Can't recall what year Ford put a brake controller connector under the dash close to the center, if there is one, you have to get a Ford pigtail to hook up the controller. Also if there is one, there will be a relay under the hood hanging by the firewall.
If you have the connector under the dash and can't find a pigtail for it at an RV store, I still have a couple.
If you don't have the connector under the dash, it's a whole new ball game for a hook up. Have to know.