Holy crap, hope you read my last PM to you.
The pic of the valley pan is the new style, the hole to the far right is where the drain plug goes. The baffle is totally different (the big hump) on the new style, on the old style, the baffle is kind of rounded and goes the full length back to the drain plug, but not over it.
You should have a fitting that goes on the front of the IP gear bolt access hole right under the oil fill, the long hose from there, goes back to the CDR, the CDR lays on it's side and a short hose goes into the air intake.
Can't show it but, the oil return flex tube from the turbo goes into the hole right behind the turbo where the CDR use to be. That is the hole you have to go thru to punch holes in the VP baffle.
The grommets was furnished by Banks. The grommet for the oil return fits the CDR hole but the hole thru it is small to fit the flex tube.
Your EGT sensor goes into the exhaust manifold between #6 and #8 cyls. Without seeing the sensor you have, can't tell you how to mount it there, usually have to drill a hole and maybe tap it 1/4"NPT, some have a band to hold it in a non tapped hole.. Banks has a fitting for the sensor on the turbo, someplace on the exhaust downpipe side.