Well I got my fingers crossed it is just the manifold not sealing right or warped. I have a second manifold gasket so we will see. It's definitely not coming from the rocker arms, I've had those damn valve covers off so many times and double and triple checked my torque specs. I ran the truck with them off and with a stethoscope on each of them and nothing. Also ran my hand over the top of the while running and I sure couldn't fell any different among them.
I bought some similar rod off ebay because he will sell it by the pound or just 10 rods. Worked to fix a shift lever on my lathe and a broken casting on my power hacksaw. I just preheat with propane, weld perpendicular to the crack, higher amp pass parallel over the welds, peen it with my air chisel, and let it cool on a box of sand from my kids sand box. It holds up great. If I get a body lift on, I am going to weld that up pipe to the ats turbine.