I don't know of a vacuum source that would apply vacuum in AC and in MAX AC but not at any other time.
I haven't done it yet, but I had the idea of installing a vacuum switch on the temperature blend selector arm, so that when the arm's all the way in the "Cold" direction, vacuum would be applied to that line and the bypass valve was actuated. I don't know how practical it would be, but I agree that that would be better than only having the valve close when the system's set to MAX AC.
Failing that, an electric valve tied to the compressor power line (before the compressor cycling switch) would be the best way to get the result you want, although there's one problem there that may complicate things...the compressor's activated when the system's set to DEFROST. You want the compressor cycling in DEFROST mode; it helps to dry the air before going through the heater core. But, obviously, you also want heat.